don't be joke-mean with strangers. don't be even mildly sexual with strangers. don't reply to a total stranger just to tell them you don't like the hobby or piece of media or whatever they're talking about. don't start DMing a stranger with your unsolicited opinions. you wouldn't do that in the real world right, just go up to a stranger and be weird?
and again, don't be sexual with strangers. you can't just assume what someone's boundaries are
@em oh no does this need to be said again
@kioskwitch i think this will always need to be said... nothing's happened just now, i'm alright! but i've had (and seen) a bunch of weird interactions recently and you know it adds up
@em oh yeah it definitely does, I'm sorry that happened :( it's pretty sad just how many basic things need to be said out loud so people arent being weird
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