maybe a calming and optimistic thought regarding meta on masto 

We have to think about The Discourse and The Drama the way you would think of any conflict in any relationship. A relationship where you ignore and avoid conflict at all costs is not healthy. A relationship where you dig into conflict and hold onto grudges and issues forever is not healthy either! You don't need to forgive and forget everything; not all relationships work out. However, to stay healthy, learning to deescalate is vital.


Before jumping into someone else's mentions:

✅ Am I being contrarian?
✅ Do I already have a relationship with this person, or am I being inappropriately familiar?
✅ Am I "ironically" doing exactly what this person just said not to do?
✅ Am I derailing another legitimate discussion in order to get on my own favourite hobby-horse or to one-up this person in my knowledge of social issues?
✅ Am I saying "Are you surprised?" when they're disappointed?
✅ Am I providing unsolicited advice?

very bad do not open 

[hannibal buress voice] i like to flick PICKLE JUICE on the COOTER f’ FLAVOR

introducing eccoterrorism, it’s like regular terrorism but with a fuckload more dolphins and dolphin imagery

Sugar-Free internet jokes. 


gay Ronald Reagan: "Mr. Gorbachev, stretch out these walls"

yakuza tootin 

i want to beat the shit out of sagawa so bad i hope he ends up beefing it

riding the bus past a vape shop with a sign in comic sans

WARNING: Controversial Opinion!!!!! good

asking to visit a friend with the explicit intent of wanting to see their dog and not them

Ok, so, a year ago today I registered and on 8/24/18 we opened. Send boosts.

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R E D R O O M is a small, private instance geared toward goth weirdoes, artists and creatives, run by a queer PoC. Unofficial home of nightcrew, a roost for the bats of the fediverse.


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