presenting as a man to be safe and also seduce girls??? sorry terfs but that culture is for afab masc trans ppl and amab butch trans ppl Only

the language in this is clunky cause i wasn't sure how to make it properly inclusive but basically?? historic gnc culture is inherently connected to trans culture and cis ppl can have some when they've learned to not be transphobic dickheads

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trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

something idk what it is but it's something and it's important

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trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

"gender sucks and i'm mad about it"

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trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

"my connections to both what is traditionally considered masculine and what is traditionally considered feminine are turbulent and frustrating"

trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

*gets constantly judged for their failures to be feminine*

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trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

potentially feeling a connection to sapphic/lesbian culture but few other if any aspects of what ppl Classically consider womanly

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@myconidiosyncrasy trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

various degrees of alienation from the womanhood they've been told to aspire to

@myconidiosyncrasy also specifically alienation for not *wanting* what we've been told to want, not merely not *having* what we're told to want

@velexiraptor god yes this too. it's not simply the "failure" or whatever it's the guilt of consciously participating in that """failure""" because we don't want the success. and then the anger about being made to feel guilty over it

@ItsMorgan hmmm. i was gonna say "yeah but they're right??" but you already know and have considered this

@myconidiosyncrasy trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

aaaaaaaa

@ItsMorgan trans mascs 🀝 butch trans women/nb folks 🀝 butch cis women

bein cool and sexey

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