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best parts of transition so far:
-being fundamentally more comfortable with myself as a person
-side burns
-straight men aren't attracted to me anymore
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@myconidiosyncrasy oh big same on all 3 counts
I've wanted sideburns literally since the spongebob movie where spongebob and patrick got sideburns and it's thrilling to have finally achieved my dream
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@variance fuck this backstory is way cooler than mine?? i just wante d them since i watched star wars lmao
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@myconidiosyncrasy fwiw as a Starwars Enjoyer I think that’s Valid
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@variance 8 year old me wanted to BE hans solo and there's still inescapable traces of it in my current fashion taste,
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@myconidiosyncrasy @variance oh i can see this and i have only seen like... a single picture of u
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@myconidiosyncrasy @variance idky u just give off that chaotic han solo vibe
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@shade @variance me and hans solo do have some thing s in common (we're sexy, kind of idiots, in crippling amounts of debt) but i think the fundamental difference is im viscerally terrified of any one in any context thinking im "only out for myself". it's basically my big failing the in rogue subclass
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@myconidiosyncrasy @variance see the cool thing about han solo is tho he is very bad at pretending he is only out for himself which rules
so not that much of a difference
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@myconidiosyncrasy @variance valid
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@shade @variance ah yeah i think it's really just a difference in how we desire to be perceived. also i would never hit on a girl without a hand written permission note